My comfort zone

One thing about me is that i'm a very stubborn person. If i get into an argument with someone . i will NOT be the first person to speak after it all blows over. Regardless if i'm wrong or not , i believe that it is that persons responsibility to speak to me first or we will just not talk at all. Just two weeks ago me and my father got into a disagreement on the phone and he made me mad so i hung up. I guess he felt angry or mad so we stopped talking and he took the money that he gave me out of the bank account that he set up for me. Now usually i'm used to my father doing things like that so i didnt really care because i have 2 other banks accounts. But the thing about my father is that he is just as stubborn as me. Usually if we ever get into an argument he is usually the first person to come talk to me first. But this time things were different. I was talking to my mother and she told me that i should atleast try to communicate with my father and tell him that i'm sorry. One thing i dont do and dont ever think i will ever be able to do is tell someone i'm sorry. I told her she was crazy and she just laughed. But after i felt like i should atleast see how he was doing. SO.....i took the initiative for the first time to text my father to see what he was up to. I felt like apart of being responsible is taking responsibility for your wrong actions and owning up to them. I never said sorry to my father but we are on some type of cool level with eachother. Most times i dont feel comfortable talking with my dad just because he is th type of person who doesnt want to hear it if its not what he wants to hear. But somethings i will just have to deal with.